Youth bullying and violence are on the rise. According to the ABC News survey, 30% of the 6th to 10th graders bully others with some frequency, 720,000 10-24 year olds are treated in the emergency room as a result of violence every year. The recent talk of children who committed suicide as a result of bullying is drawing attention to the relationship between bullying and suicide. Suicide is the third leading cause of death of young people, the annual death toll is about 4,400 people, according to CDC, more than 100 suicide attempts are done for each youth suicide. More than 14% of high school students are considering suicide, and nearly 7% are attempting suicide.
Unfortunately, adults often do not intervene in the bullying situation even when their children are being sacrificed. Many adults are misunderstood about the effects of bullying and youth violence and are not educated. In many cases, adults subscribe to the old-fashioned way that children have to learn to solve their problems or that bullying and combat are a normal part of life. Still, when I was young, why do other adults remember to tease odd children and think that children are not affected adversely and why do they involve? The interesting thing is that if you ask them to stop at the same adult for a minute to think, someone has the power to humiliate them or to intimidate them, how bad it is, how frightened it is,
In the early 1960s all slum books were furious at high school. Students write their anonymous comments on the notes tied by the spiral given from the students to the students, and each student adds their own comments. The slum book was given its name. Fear of detection. As they were injured in conspiracy like slum books, they usually did not travel far away from the students of the selected group. In rare cases, I did not even get into another 'house room' student. Today, many students go to neighboring schools. Due to the explosion of electronic media, children can spread rumors extensively. Uploading images and messages to the Internet from disgusting words written on the notebook read by 15 to 20 readers so that millions of people around the world can view materials in seconds It was. These factors make bullying far more ominous and dangerous than in the past.
According to the definition, bullying occurs when people and groups that are more powerful than the victim have repeatedly selected over and over again in terms of physical strength and social status. Bullying
• Physical obedience, beating, fighting fists
• Language insults, threats
• Decrease emotional desires or force people who do something they do not want to do
• Social exclusion
Cyber bullying uses mobile phones, instant messages, e-mail messages, Facebook or Twitter to post insults or average, vulgar, or intimidating messages.
Cyber bullying includes posting sensitive personal information and impersonating others to make the victims bad.
Numbers of adult authority are essential for solving bullying problems. You should not regard bullying as a test of the character of the victim. Problem solving skills are effective in other situations, but they do not apply to bullying. With these methods, we assume that the victim is part of the problem to be solved. Bullying simply sacrifices others to perceive imbalance of power. Attracting others makes me feel strongly about bullying. Adults must create a trust and safety atmosphere when young people are talking about what is happening in their lives. Giving power to your child and encouraging positive self esteem is simply the best way to rape your child. Please help your child make friends in neighborhoods and schools and participate in excellent activities. Giving power to young people and encouraging self-respect is the best way to rape your child.
• Listen to your children and trust their judgment
• If your child says "picked up" to you, I believe that situation is serious. It takes a lot of courage for children to talk
• Do not teach children to ignore it. What a child listens to is it You are I am going to ignore that.
If your child is being bullied:
• resist the urge to call another parent. The situation deteriorates many times
• Familiarize your school's policies on bullying and violence.
• Consult your child's teacher or go directly to the principal
Do not forget to bully tea enjoy the perceived power than others. When a child is confident, he or she regains their power. Bully does not get reward from action and moves. Please tell me that the child has the right to feel safe at school and that there is the ability to stop bullying.
For more information:
Take the heat ... against youth violence http://takingtheheat.webs.com
Stop bullying now! http://www.stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov
